Are you waiting for a soul mate? Dating with a mission to find true love? If so, you’re not alone. A survey by the Rutgers University Marriage Project found that 94 percent of 20- to 29-year-olds believe that finding a soul mate is the most important thing when it comes to marriage.

However, believing in the idea of soul mates does not necessarily mean that there is only one person for you.
In fact, everyone’s definition of a soul mate is different. Maybe yours was a boyfriend from the past who is still with you in spirit today or someone who gave your life meaning in a way that was lasting, even if the relationship was not.

Soul mates are people who change your life and the way you live it going forward. They fulfill a need for connection, which may be different at various times in your life. It’s also important to remember that soul mates are not limited to romantic relationships. They can be a friend or family member — anyone with whom you feel an unexplained connection or sense of completeness.

By waiting for a person who feels right — one you have a deep spiritual and sexual connection with — you give love the best chance of all. But it’s equally as important to celebrate all your relationships for what they’ve taught you and what they still have to teach you. Remember to enjoy the journey.